No Pity Parties


Don’t apologize too much. It’s not that bad. You can’t always keep that pity face because this universe is designed to attack the wounded.  We don’t walk around like that, hommie!






No one in history has ever chocked to death from swallowing his/ her pride. Don’t consciously leave people wounded. When you’re wrong, say you’re sorry, be sincere about it and then move on. Move forward, no regrets, not backward to the pain. Don’t wallow in guilt.  You haven’t done worse than King David did, or even his son, Solomon. Like Google Map when driving, when you make an error in a turn, it never says reverse back. It quickly finds an alternative route, most times even shorter and better. God is like that. The devil may try to remind you of your past, laugh him to scorn and remind him of your future.






Call me mean, but I will never attend a pity party. In the bible, wounded or blemished animals were not accepted as offerings to God.  I know better and I know that Learned Helplessness is a disease. It is a condition in which a person suffers from a sense of powerlessness, guilt or fear arising from a traumatic event or persistent failure on something. It is a potent weapon to hinder moving on to greater things.  Pray for strength, to emerge from your weakness. In the words of the NBA legend Michael Jordan, he said “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed”.




Don’t over beat yourself, we all make mistakes. Look, life is a journey and sometimes in that journey, you get lost.


God is known to bring beauty from ashes. In what you’re going through the glory of God will be revealed through it. Be calm! #ChurchForTheStreets




So many people are time travelling while forgetting now. NOW IS A GIFT, that’s why it’s called PRESENT. Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worries — all forms of fear — are cause by TOO MUCH FUTURE, and not enough PRESENT. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of non-forgiveness are caused by TOO MUCH PAST, AND NOT ENOUGH PRESENT in the present. Live now hommie.


Don’t apologise too much. It’s not that bad. The universe is designed to attack the wounded.




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